A. Pray about any concern or matter that concerns you and the pastor.
(Many times this will take care of things)
B. Don’t talk about him – talk to him personally. (Pastors need to be
approachable, but so do church members)
C. If you feel offended, go with a humble heart and with a right motive to
resolve the matter in love and forgiveness.
D. Seek a Biblical answer to resolve any concern first before confronting the
pastor. (The Bible may have your answer before you ask the pastor)
E. Make sure that you are not being convicted by the Holy Spirit instead of
being offended by the pastor. (Personality vs. personal conviction)